I muse today

We all have moments in life when we stand at crossroads and have to make decisions which seem difficult.No,i am not talking about metamorphic,life-altering decisions.Because to be honest,i haven’t made any.Not my fault though.I wish i could give you some story about a harsh childhood,unloving parents or an alien encounter in my backyard.But no,i had a pretty normal childhood,an average teenage and now a below average adulthood.

Don’t get me wrong,i am really happy with my life.I can handle normal.Changes are a whole new level and i have a zero experience.I don’t know how people are dealing with their lives.I am someone who has what you can say the first world problems in a third world nation(this idea of ‘first’ and ‘third’ world is outdated though).You know,the basics like no wifi at relative’s house,waiting a week for new episode of your favorite show,phone running low on battery but the socket too far from my bed,my Uber 5 minutes away from location,choosing between an iced latte and green apple mojito,not able to get a spray tan because you are already brown.So yeah,these are the kind of troubles i face currently.

Anyhoo,i still like to analyze the way i am dealing with my life and the person i am becoming.I try not to hurt people around me.I try not to get hurt myself due to wrong people.So whenever i am in a pickle,where i am kinda hurt and the other person is not a terrible one,i try to put myself in their shoes.This not only calms down the situation but also help you get another point of view.This gradually inculcates as a habit and you atleast have one trait-Empathy.Its an important one too.

Sympathy is easy,you look down on the person concerned and feel bad for them.Empathy is hard,because you have to come down to their level and try to feel how the other person is feeling.

So next time,try not to be selfish.Respect how they feel.And react after analyzing the whole situation.If it still doesn’t feel right,confront and tell them how they made you feel.Its important for them to know.

To being a better person,

Ru.

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Do i wanna know?

‘Cause there’s this tune i found

that makes me think

of you somehow

And i play it on repeat

Until i fall asleep.

#ArcticMonkeys

Misfit

You see parts of yourself

in those around you.

This helps you connect 

with the world you live in.

So don’t shut others out

just because you see 

your reflection casted in them.

Its okay that you don’t like

some things about yourself.

But know that we 

are all flawed

All just random combinations

of similar bits

All learning to deal

with this facade.

Standing here on hilltop

I am asking nature 

to give me a hint.

As i stand still here,

listening carefully to the

whispers of the wind.

Because i don’t know

what should i shout?

Maybe the echoes from

these mountains

will clear my doubts.

Kind

Its so much easier to hate

Being kind takes effort.

 

You have to crush

the vicious thoughts,

And tell yourself

that you could be better.

 

Milestones


Thank you WordPress!This is by far maybe the only task i haven’t procrastinated.And i am kinda proud. 😀

Mother

I know you work really hard

Managing both the worlds

But can’t you spare for me

Just two soothing words?

I am desperate here

for your love and approval.

My heart is weak

Please don’t be this brutal.

Daze

I’ve chosen the perfect location.

The white houses

and their blue tops.

We’ll walk those streets

till the sun drops.

Then we’ll sit down there

and soak in the sunset.

And create memories

of the moments so perfect.

 

 

 

 

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